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Especially for our readers, we have made a selection of the most beautiful and wisest quotes. These thoughts and sayings are really worth remembering.
The main thing is not to break down, to be stronger, no matter what. The hard times will pass, and sooner or later everything will be fine.
Deceived once, doubts everyone.
The best lessons we learn are when we make mistakes, the mistake of the past is the wisdom of the future.
- Is it possible to love the cold?
- Necessary. Cold teaches us to appreciate warmth.
I do not regret anything anyway - if only because it is pointless.
Max Fry
Life breaks the strongest, bringing them to their knees to prove that they can rise, but it does not touch the weak. They have been on their knees all their lives
I'm not chasing anyone anymore.
Do you want to leave my life?
Go away.
Relying only on yourself is a great way to stop being disappointed in people and live in a great mood.
Life cannot be changed overnight. But overnight you can change thoughts that will change your life forever!
Do not be afraid of enemies, be afraid of friends. Friends betray, not enemies.
© Johnny Depp
And you will meet when you are not waiting.
And you will not find where you are looking for.
If cats are scratching their hearts - do not hang your nose ... The time will come, and they will purr loudly with happiness ...
Less anger, more irony
And more and more dots above the "and" ...
Strangers leave us
They stay with us.
Calmness is self-control's best friend.
Know how to forgive, because this is a property of the strong. The weak never forgive.
Stronger than cheating, I'm afraid just not to learn about cheating. It's terrible to love someone who no longer deserves it.
Vladimir Vysotsky
You live and think that nothing in your life changes. But, looking back into the past, you understand that this is far from the case.
Fate is not a matter of chance, but a result of choice. Fate is not expected, it is created!
Everyone can see how you look on the outside, but very few of those who know what is in your soul.
Happiness is near.
Don't make up ideals for yourself.
Apperciate things which you have.
Only loneliness teaches us to love ... And only loss teaches us to appreciate.
If I tolerate this does not mean that I am not in pain.
Do not offend someone who is unable to offend you.
Be grateful for problems, they show you what you are worth.
One rose can become a garden. One person - the whole world.
Why did Allah create everything? Why is there everything that is in the circle and exists exactly in the form in which it is?
The heavens, the earth, and everything in between were created without amusement. Allah said in His Quran that he created everything without amusement. Allah said:
* We did not create heaven, earth and everything in between by amusing ourselves. (Kuran; 21/16)
* I created genies and humans only to worship me. (Kuran; 51/56)
He created us for the purpose of worshiping Him alone and without associates.
* He is the One who created the heavens and the earth in six days, when His Throne was on the water, in order to experience whose deeds would be better. If you say, "You will be resurrected after death," the unbelievers will say, "This is nothing but obvious witchcraft!" (Kuran; 11/7)
Allah created everything that we call the universe to test us. This is not our last appointment. What we evaluate as “good” or “evil” may turn out to be the opposite.
* Blessed is the One, in Whose Hand is power, Who is capable of all things, Who created death and life, to test you and see whose deeds will be better. He is Mighty, Forgiving. He created the families of heaven, one above the other. You will not see any incongruity in the creation of the Merciful. Take another look. Do you see any crack? Then look again, and again, and your gaze will return to you humiliated and weary. (Kuran; 67 / 1-4)
Kuran tells us about the essence of creation and how quickly we forget about the wonderful blessings that accompany us on a daily basis. Allah clearly describes our attitude in His scripture:
* When harm touches a person, he cries out to his Lord, turning to Him alone. When He grants him benefit from Himself, a person forgets the One to Whom he cried out before (or forgets what he called for before), and equals others with Allah in order to lead others astray. Say: “Take advantage of your unbelief a little! Indeed, you will be one of the inhabitants of the Fire! ” (Kuran; 39/8)
We forget because we were created to be forgetful. This is part of our challenge. Will we use only selective memory and see what we have before the Creator, or will we be grateful even when we have difficulties or failures in this life?
* When the Lord tests a person, showing him mercy and endowing him with blessings, he says: “My Lord has honored me!”. When He tests him, limiting him in food, he says: "My Lord has humiliated me!" (Kuran; 89 / 16-16).
Then Allah made it obvious to us the reasons for which this is the case:
*But no! You yourself do not honor an orphan, do not encourage each other to feed the poor man, greedily (or entirely) devour the inheritance and passionately love wealth. (Kuran; 89 / 17-20)
Allah created us and gave us so much while we are so carefree about His Right to be worshiped exclusively and to deny the Day of Judgment when we are all asked about His Magnanimity, Nobility.
* Oh man! What has led you astray about your Magnanimous Lord, Who created you and made your appearance perfect and proportionate? He folded you in the form in which He wished. Oh no! You think retribution is a lie. (Kuran; 82 / 6-9)
And how are we going to view our conditions and surroundings? And how are we going to teach others? Will we be considerate of others and quick to judge or say goodbye? All these things are part of our test, things that will be asked of us on the Day of Judgment.
All praise be to Allah - the Lord of all things. The mercy of Allah associated with exaltation, and salvation from troubles and hardships that hinder perfection - to the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), his family (clan) and all his companions.
O son of Adam, death is a door and all people will enter into it.
O son of Adam, death is a horn (cup), and all people will drink from it.
O son of Adam, truly, I created you for that light, and I want deeds from you for that light, and leave the worldly, truly, you were not created for this. Verily, this world will disappear, and the one who aspires to it will disappear. Indeed, he is very deceiving, and you are deceived, and if you sleep, wake up from your sleep.
O son of Adam, if you commit acts leading to disobedience to Me, who is the one who will protect you from My torment (from My punishment)?
O son of Adam, if you hope to receive My mercy, try to worship Me, and if you are afraid of My punishments, leave disobedience to Me in order to reach My bounties (mercy) in the Other World. O son of Adam, you are afraid of people, and you are ashamed of them, but you are not ashamed of Me and My angels, and you disobey Me and leave worshiping Me.
O son of Adam, do not forget about death, for truly, death will not forget you.
O son of Adam, death is a road, and all people will cross it.
O son of Adam, you are content with this light, in which there is heat, and cold, and thirst, and nakedness, and anxiety, and sorrow, and you left that light in which there is joy, and generosity, and blessings, and how unprofitable your trade ( how your exchange is not profitable)!
O son of Adam, if I had given you worldly wealth, everything that is, then you would have desired as much, therefore your womb will not be satisfied, except with the earth.
O son of Adam, if I gave you to live in this world as long as this light exists, there is no other end to it but death. And you do not love death, but it is impossible not to taste death, so remember about death, so that your heart may cool to the worldly.
O son of Adam, do good deeds, truly this is the key to Paradise, and it will lead you to Paradise. And beware of evil [evil deeds], this is truly the key to hell, and it will lead you to hell.
O son of Adam, these palaces that you built will be destroyed, and your life is given for temporary use, and your body is for decay and for worms. And the wealth that you have collected and amassed is for the heirs. And the report, and regret and sadness will fall on you in the Other World.
And your companions are in the grave - your good deeds or your evil deeds.
O son of Adam, who loves this light, he truly loves life, and who loves life, truly, loves property (wealth), and who loves property, he does not remember death, and who does not remember death, verily, postpones repentance and worship [because of] the deeds of the earth, and he leaves this world without repentance and worship. Whoever leaves this world without repenting and bowing, will not go to Paradise.
O son of Adam, who does not love this light, truly, does not love life, and who does not love life, truly, does not love property, and who does not love property, verily, he remembers death and burial torments, and the interrogation of Munkar and Nakir (names two angels interrogating the deceased in the grave), and a report. And whoever remembers these things, he, verily, will repent and perform good deeds, and whoever repented and performs good deeds, he, verily, will be saved from the Fire and the horrors of the Day of Judgment.
O son of Adam, who remembers Me with worship, I remember him with [My] mercy. And whoever remembers Me by disobeying [Me], I remember him with [My] curse, diligently worship Me, and forsake disobedience to Me.
O son of Adam, fulfill your duties, and abandon yourself from disobedience, and be content with what I have given you, and you be ready for death to receive from My bounty in the Other World.
O son of Adam, who committed sins, laughing, he will enter the Fire, weeping, who did good deeds, weeping, he will enter Paradise laughing.
O son of Adam, do not believe in your youth, how many young people who were outstripped by death, and the old man, as he was, remained after their death?
O son of Adam, how many people who collected the property of the world and then died, leaving it as an inheritance to someone who does not thank them for it, while there is an account in the Other World. Therefore, do not rejoice in the worldly, verily, it deceives you, as it deceived those who came before you. I have not created anything more insignificant for Me than this light (earthly property),
therefore leave him alone, verily, he is trouble for the one who loved him, and trouble for the one who gathered him. If this world had weight (cost) for Allah even a wing of a mosquito, the Almighty would not give even a sip of water to the unbeliever to drink. Verily, I have created all this full of sorrow and anxiety.
O son of Adam, even if I created that light from stone or clay and eternal, and if I created this world all from gold, silver and yahont (ruby), but temporary, you would have to desire the eternal and refrain from the temporary ( transitory).
O son of Adam, if you are going [all]: your former (first), and your next (last), and genies, and people, [everything] is raw from you, and [everything] is dry, from Arsh to the very bottom in order to grow one grain from the earth, or one fruit, leaf, or blade of grass to bring down a drop of water from the sky, you cannot do this without Our mercy.
The Almighty said: "Property is my property, and Paradise is My home, and the poor are My wards. Therefore, buy Paradise from me for My property, and if you make a profit, it will remain for you, if you remain at a loss then I will take it upon Me. "
O son of Adam, a light burden is lighter for your back than a heavy burden, just as a small property is easier for you to account for than a large one.
O son of Adam, study the sciences (acquire knowledge), whoever has no knowledge, he has no mind (wisdom), and he does not have religion, and whoever has no religion has no Paradise in the Next World.
O son of Adam, verily, you collected property diligently, with difficulty, and verily, you became an aspirant to it, and you forgot that light because of the experiences of this world. When will you be free to perform deeds for the Other World, at a time when death is in front of you (approached you)? So suddenly it embraces you (comes to you).
O son of Adam, until when will you repent of your sins and return to them, committing sins and repentance one after another? If you have the power to defend yourself from My punishment (torment), disobey [Me] as you wish. If this is not the case, then take pity on your weak nafs before you meet Me.
O son of Adam, do so that your heart matches your tongue, and that your tongue matches your deeds, and your deeds do good (improve) in the name of the Most High, verily, the heart of a hypocrite differs (does not match) with his language, and his language differs (does not correspond) with his deeds, and his deeds are not in the name of Allah.
O son of Adam, if a handful of earth from Paradise were scattered in the East, then the inhabitants of the West would also feel its smell (scent). If you fill a bucket with pus secreted by the inhabitants of hell, then the seventh planet would split due to the strength (power) of its heat. If one link from the chain of hell was placed on the top of a mountain on the earth, it (the mountain) would melt like lead melts in a fire. What will be your patience on fire?
O son of Adam, you didn’t say a word, and you didn’t look with one glance, and you didn’t take a step without two angels writing about you next to you. How many people are strong in body and weak in worshiping Me?
Great joy and happiness to the one who used his strength to resist sins.
O son of Adam, where is he who indulged in pleasures and passions, and where is he who gathered gold, and he who sat on his passions? Indeed, they left this world with sorrow and went into the earth alone and with anxiety.
Forget all the lies that are presented to you under the guise of the law. Forget everything the liars teach you in the name of the Lord. Do you really believe that a warrior can forgive and love his enemy? This is a disgrace for a warrior, and it will not do any reasonable honor. Forgiving enemies and offenders is the lot of the cowardly. You will gain nothing by forgiving him. He will believe in his impunity. And again he will do you harm, or to someone else. Punish him, punish him a hundredfold from his guilt. And he will be discouraged to do it again, and he will order others to do wrong. There is no forgiveness. There is no oblivion. For whoever has done wrong will return to this more than once. Deny yourself and mercy, for you cannot extend your mercy to the unworthy. A fool is he who feeds the one who bites his hand. Here is a beggar sitting. At the wall of the temple is his place. In the name of the Lord, he asks for alms. He is looking for food. Do not give him money, for he will buy wine with it, he will be drunk and laugh at you. Do not give him bread, for he will eat it and the next day he will ask him again. If you want to help him, teach him a craft or let him trade, so that he himself can get his own bread. For he does not ask for his poverty, not out of poverty, but out of laziness. And he does not use generosity, but stupidity. Drive all the unworthy away from you. Drive all those who seek your generosity. Only someone you like can take your arm. But don't let him push you around too. And it is better to be alone than among the unworthy.
And do not wait for death in order to gain your own blessings and reward. For why are you good when you are not? Therefore, cast aside all prohibitions and leave abstinence to ascetics. Why should you suffer and suffer when you can acquire what you want and get what you are looking for. Abstinence is the lot of the insignificant. They have neither the mind nor the strength to achieve what they want. So they console themselves: I will suffer now and will be rewarded to me after. Nothing will be rewarded to them. Do not be like them. Don't let your feelings prevail over you. For whoever has succumbed to them will become blind and deaf. He will become like a fool. And he will leave the path of Truth, and begin to wander roundabout paths. And his goal will not come near. And fear hope, she is disembodied, she is deceitful and insidious. She captivated many and betrayed many. And it serves faithfully only to those who subordinate their feelings to reason, faith to knowledge - love to reason. Then hope is also a fruit of reason, and not a child of blind faith. For only one faith is worthy - faith in yourself. One love is worthy - self-love. Any other faith is helpless, any other love is empty. For if you believe in something without believing in yourself, you will become insignificant and you will be a slave to your faith. And you cannot love anyone if you have not been able to love yourself. Either your love will be false, or you will become its slave. And your faith will become like a bond, and your hope will be like chains, and your love will be like a millstone around your neck. Wisdom alone will help you to throw off these shackles. And it will be nourished by your curiosity and thirst for knowledge, inquisitiveness and cunning. Leave simplicity to the servants of God. And you, who have loved yourself, who believe in yourself and trust in yourself, armed with knowledge and wisdom, will be strong on the path of Truth. And who will challenge you then?
The servants of the Lord may say: This is a lie! Feth lied to you in order to lead the righteous from the path, so that you choose the devil's path and destroy your soul. Can you answer them? Do you know: what is a lie? Lies are the weapon of the strong and the shield of the weak. And it is terrible only for those who do not know how to distinguish it from the Truth. And it is not the one who lies that deceives you, but your blind faith. Do not be too trusting, but believe only what you have learned yourself. For there are many who will lie in order to take power over you. And many will resort to lies in order to humiliate you. And you cannot know about me whether I am lying to you or telling the truth, until you understand it with your mind. It is the same with the servants of the Lord. Check their words with your mind, and let your mind evaluate the deeds they have done. And you yourself will see what the truth is. You yourself will know what lies are. And you will distinguish one from the other. Do not be too truthful, so as not to put weapons into the hands of your enemies. Do not do this either out of stupidity or out of your simplicity. For the one who is your friend today, tomorrow may stand among the enemies. So do not help him against yourself and do not let him take advantage of your truthfulness and innocence. The wise will benefit from both falsehood and truth, and will put both of them at his service. Be wise too, and perfect yourself, walking towards the Truth. And do not stop on your way. For there are no limits to knowledge, there are no limits to perfection.
There are two reasons why we find it so difficult to forget someone: 1) We truly believe that this person was our destiny; 2) We're afraid we won't find anyone better. However, we must remember two more things: 1) If someone is our destiny, he will return to our life, no matter how far he goes; 2) You can always find someone better, or someone good enough not to forget you.
It is, of course, very painful when you feel that the person you love so much has forgotten you or is neglecting you. But instead of forcing yourself to forget him, free yourself by remembering him.
How?
Remember him when you cry at night, remember the pain he caused you, remember how you almost choked on the tears shed because of him, and remember how you had to hide your swollen eyes under glasses so that no one can see your real feelings.
Remember him on your birthday, remember that he is not with you for a specific reason, that he is happier somewhere else, with someone else. Remember that he wanted to be without you.
Remember him when you're lonely, remember how he once promised not to leave you, but in the end he left you alone, preferring the other.
Remember when you were invited to the wedding how he told you that he was going, but was late, but at the last minute he turned around and went in the opposite direction, and you were left alone among the guests without a pair.
Remember when your family asked you about your relationship, and how could you avoid this question if he was there. Remember that he did not want to give your relationship status or even the slightest importance.
Remember him when you smile, because someone appreciates you, but he did not appreciate and it deprived you of a smile. Remember that he chose to make another smile.
Remember him every time you want to forget him, remember that he does not remember you, and remember that he wants you to forget him.
Remember him when you finally get over your breakup., remember him when you see him and remember no more.